It’s likely that either you or a family member accompanies your aging parent on visits to their physicians.  Effective communication with those physicians directly impact your parent’s quality of care, and ultimately their quality of life.

Have you ever left the doctor’s office, feeling your concerns were disregarded … that you  don’t know how to get the right help for your parent?  You want to turn the situation around, but you just don’t know how.

Here are some helpful tips from Viki Kind, bioethicist and recent guest on my radio show. [click to continue…]

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As you think about your parents, what are some of your hopes and dreams for them as they age?

For my own mother, I hope that she

  • can live her life the way she chooses
  • will have the best possible health and quality of life
  • will always be part of a loving, caring community surrounded by support

And yet I realize the many challenges.  We have a growing aging population that is straining our healthcare and senior care system.  Debilitating chronic diseases can wear down even the most resilient body and spirit.   And, then there’s the isolation that all too often accompanies aging due to loss of spouse and loved ones.

It’s seems that our hopes and the reality are at odds.  Or, are they? 

I want to share an innovative approach to helping older adults live an active and healthy life in their own homes with the aid of a senior-friendly tool.  There are quite a few technologies that are senior friendly, but this approach goes one critical step deeper!

Recently I spoke with Denise Rabidoux, President  & CEO, Evangelical Homes of Michigan, and Steve Hopkins, VP Wellness and Home Based Solutions.  Evangelical Homes is a Continuing Care Retirement Community (CCRC) with a bold vision.  [click to continue…]

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Where the Heart Is: How to pay for home modifications for aging parents

January 23, 2012

‘Aging in place’ is an important goal for many people. Not sure where to start in preparing? This article offers up helpful sites for you to learn what services and resources are offered in your home state. You’ll also learn ways to ease the burden of purchasing or installing the often costly assistive equipment and home modifications.

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5 Things You Should Know Before Your Aging Parents’ Next ER Visit

January 8, 2012

Yesterday, I met with a lovely woman, Betty, who shared about the saga of caring for her husband, from the time he entered the hospital as a seemingly healthy 74 year old until now … just 8 months later, a resident of a long-term care facility.

One thing she said to me several times, “Dale, please tell people the information they need to know about their loved ones, and the conversations they need to have NOW.”

Here are 5 key things you need to know about your aging loved one’s health before their next ER visit.

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New Service to Help with Safety of Aging Parents (Older Drivers)

January 1, 2012

Keeping Us Safe is proud to announce that Dale Carter is now certified as a “Beyond Driving with Dignity” Professional. This program is designed to help provide the older driver and their family with a common-sense approach to facilitate (and often times mediate!) rational, common-sense solutions based on tangible facts and personal observations.

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Surgeons confused by Living Wills: Important Information for You and Your Aging Parent

December 26, 2011

(Thanks to our guest blogger for highlighting a matter that is critical to quality of life and death for everyone!  Douglas D. Germann, Sr. is an Elder Caring Lawyer in South Bend, Indiana.  His contact information is at the end of this post.) Here is an article from the Annals of Surgery which headlines that [...]

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Give the Gift of Health to Your Aging Parents

December 20, 2011

I can imagine you read that headline, and thought how do I do that?  It is true that we each have an unique genetic disposition to diseases; we are subject to a lifetime of environmental toxins; and, our bodies are impacted by the aging process.  It’s easy for us and our parents to feel that [...]

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Aging Parent? Top 5 Blogposts for 2011

December 5, 2011

Just in case you missed any of my blog posts in 2011, here are the top 5 most read blogposts (in order of popularity, the most popular is first.) These posts address the most common issues we face with aging parents:
* how to help those who refuse help
* how to help our parents transition to Assisted Living
* how to utilize innovations and safety features in bathrooms
* how to communicate with loved ones with dementia
* how to communicate with difficult siblings
Read, reflect and gain insight into some of the key issues that you may face now or in the coming year with your aging parent and family!

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Checklist As You Visit Your Aging Parents This Thanksgiving

November 19, 2011

The holidays bring a spike in admissions at nursing homes and assisted living facilities. A lot can happen in one year, in terms of your parent’s health and home. If you find yourself in a home that’s in disarray or facing someone who is in frail health, you may find yourself in a reactive mode, wanting to jump at a solution. There’s a better way to approach the situation.

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Aging Parent? A New Approach and Understanding

November 13, 2011

Join me for 3 evenings in November (one hour each evening over the phone) when I show you exactly how to help your aging parent, regardless of the challenge. I will provide you with the same roadmap I used in helping my mother. Based on sound principles of communication, project management, and gerontology, you’ll learn the innovative ADAPT tool that you’ll be able to use time and time again. But, it’s not only a process. I’ll show you how to get you whole family on the same page and sharing the care.

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